Saying goodbye...
On this cool October day Mr. Dog Trot and I boarded a ferry and headed down the bay to my childhood home of Long Island...my mom and dad were there to collect us and soon we were on our way to the "New Hill" cemetery...It was a day for saying goodbye...it is never easy losing a loved one, but on this Autumn day, as the sun filtered through the maple trees, the gentle wind whispering, we bowed our head's in prayer...An island community is a very special group of caring, giving people. It is one of the many things that I have missed since leaving...once an islander, always an islander. The memorial service was lovely, heartfelt and with a bit of humor. Later... as I placed my flowers at the graveside, I turned and was in awe of what I saw...standing behind us, the immediate family, was an entire island community, both young and old alike. My aunt would have been pleased.
Goodbyes are not forever.
Goodbyes are not the end.
They simply mean I'll miss you,
Until we meet again.
~Unknown~
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18 comments:
I'm sorry for your loss... it's always hard to lose a loved one. It sounds like your aunt was much beloved by everyone who knew her. I know she will be missed.
so sorry about the loss of your aunt but what a wonderful send off!
My condolences to you and your family.
Denise
Hell Dear Julie, lovely post, I can imagine how heartfelt that was, truely touching. Bless you all the Islanders, Hugs Francine.
Oh Julie, you have had to have so many goodbyes lately. I am thankful you have the strength of the Island people behind you. I went through that period of time in 1907-2008 where every year I lost so many loved ones. There was a time of weeping but then babies began to come and the world began to be beautiful again. I am thankful you have a baby to hold. I am so thankful to know that there is a place like your island. It warms my heart.
A community can be a powerful thing. Sometimes they simply amaze us. So sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry for your loss, how loved your aunt must have been.
Heartfelt condolences.
Hugs :)
Lauren
It's beautiful how small communities come together to support each other. It's a testament to your Aunt and how they feel about your entire family.
So sorry Julie. Such a lovely post and how wonderful the support of your island community. Thinking of you and Mr. Dog Trot and your family. Hugs from Missouri.
so sorry for your loss.
Cathy
So sorry Julie. Sending love. Your words are ever unforgettable!
Love the short goodbye poem. Hope you are well.
So sorry for your loss Julie and bitter sweet visit to your island community. How fortunate to have such a supportive community to pay your aunt homage and respect. My sympathy. Hugs,
JB
So sorry for your loss she must have been a wonderful person if she is anything like you. Hugs Cheri
So sorry for your loss, Julie.
Robyn
What a wonderful tribute to Gail. She will be missed by many.
I'm sorry for the loss of your Aunt. Sending peace to you and all who loved her. ~Vonnie
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